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Parenting:
Mom’s House, Dad’s House
©1997 Isolina Ricci, Ph.D.
A Fireside Book published by Simon & Schuster
ISBN 0-684-83078-7 pbk
Parents Are Forever
©1995 Shirley Thomas, Ph.D.
Springboard Publications,P.O.Box 484, Longmont, CO 80501-484
ISBN 0-9646378-2-0
Helping Your Kids Cope With Divorce
©1998 M. Gary Newman, Licensed.Mental.Health.Counselor
& mediator
Times Books, a div.of Random House, Inc.
ISBN 0-8129-2902–0
Helping Children Cope with Divorce
Edward Teyber, Ph.D. (A clinical child psychologist
at Calif.State.U.,San Bernardino)
© 1992 Lexington Books, an imprint of Macmillan, Inc.
ISBN 0-669-27067-9
“Parents...cannot find a perfect parenting plan that
will not be accompanied by additional problems. There is no established
formula.... Thus parents need to discuss, compromise, and tailor
specific plans to fit their own individual circumstances.”p.120-121.
25% of couples are cooperative in child’s best interest.
They “make plans for their children, discuss children’s
problems, attempt to enforce similar rules between households, and
back up each other’s parenting.” p.122
33% don’t speak, but don’t fight. “....they
manage the logistics of visitation with little conflict and the
children do not see their parents argue or undermine each other.”
33% are in conflict even around the children and are litigious.
“These parents do not cooperate or communicate well....”
“In these families, shared parenting arrangements should not
be established. Instead, sole legal custody and primary physical
custody should be given to the parent who provides the children
with the least contested access to the other parent.”
p.123-124
Access schedules are discussed, including split-week arrangements.
Don’t Divorce your Children
© 1999 Jennifer M. Lewis, M.D. and William A.H.Sammons,
M.D.
Contemporary Books, div.NTC/Contemporary Publishing Group, Inc.
ISBN 0-8092-2793-2
Discusses how to work out a parenting plan & some model schedules,
p.64 et seq.
The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce
© 2000 Judith S. Wallerstein, Julia M Lewis and
Sandra Blakeslee
Children of Divorce
© 1986,1992 Debbie Barr, a Christian writer
Zondervan
0-310-28471-3 pbk
Throwaway Dads: The Myths & Barriers that Keep Men
From Being Fathers
© 1999 Ross D. Parke, Ph.D. & Armin A. Brott
Houghton Mifflin Co.
ISBN 0-395-86041-5
Supports mediation p.175
Renegotiating Family Relationships
Robert Emery, Ph.D. (U.Va.)
Supports mediation
In a Virginia study, 11% of those assigned to mediation ended up
in court;
whereas 72% who didn’t go thru mediation ended up in court.
Every Other Weekend: Straight Talk to Divorced Men
Kenneth F. Parker, MSW and Van Jones, LPC of the Minirth-Meier
Clinic
Thomas Nelson
ISBN 0-8407-7803-1
Child Custody
Marianne Takas
Perennial Library, Harper & Row, Publishers
ISBN 0-06-096129-5
Caught in the Middle: Protecting the Children of High-Conflict
Divorce
Carla B. Garrity, Ph.D. and Mitchell A. Baris, Ph.D.
© 1994 Lexington Books, Macmillan, Inc.
ISBN 0-02-911330-X
Co-Parenting After Divorce
© 1996 Diana Shulman, J.D., Ph.D.
ISBN 0-9656907-0-9 pbk
WinnSpeed Press
14622 Ventura Blvd., Ste. 329
Sherman Oaks, CA 91403
Phone 818-908-0058
Fax 818-909 9209
Quick to Listen, Slow to Speak
Robert E. Fisher, Ph.D.
ISBN 0-8423-5111-6
© 1987 Pathway Press, Cleveland, TN
Living Books®, Tyndale House Publishers, Inc.
Finances:
Money & Divorce
© 1992 Violet Woodhouse, J.D., CFP
Nolo Press
ISBN 0-87337-342-1
Money-Smart Divorce
© 1996 Ester M. Berger, CFP
Simon & Schuster
ISBN 0-684-81165-0
The Dollars and Sense of Divorce
Judith Briles
Still trying to make the
marriage work?
Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus
John Gray, Ph.D.
Harper Collins
© 1992 J.G.Productions, Inc.
ISBN 0-06-016848-X hardback
This is also in paperback
Money & Marriage
Steven Pybrum, CPA, MBA
© 1996 Abundance Publishing
P.O.Box 23209
Santa Barbara, CA 93121
ISBN 0-9651277–2-9
Divorce Recovery:
Mars and Venus Starting Over
John Gray, Ph.D.
© 1998
Harper Collins
ISBN 0-06-01798-2
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